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Wednesday, March 08, 2006
6:59 AM
i need to complete mah socio proj which costs a freaking 30% or 35% by this weekend! will be soo super busy on sat and sun think i won't have da time to do. i just hope to complete it early so it won't be at da back of mah mind most of da time. but wells, God places miracles! :)
grabbed tis from da forum: issue on sex and family. focusing on pre-marital sex. thought it was pretty interesting. tis is mah research topic! haha* wonder how am i gonna conduct interviews. sensitive issues. someone posted tis// 'Recently, there was this nation-wide program to spread awareness of AIDS and pre-marital sex to young people out there through the giving out of little purses with a hidden condom compartment in it. I think that this move will only entrench the problem further and in fact, encourage and embolden more young people with impressionable minds to engage in pre-marital sex. Their thinking may be skewed into the belief that sex before marriage is ok and they are protected from the harmful risks just by using the thin rubber given to them on the streets. How mistaken they are! Even the best technological breakthrough has its flaws...'
okay, in wadever sense, i need to do a detailed write-up on this issue. i always thot socio is interesting. it really is. very real and valid issue on debates. PMS. something dat is on the rise nowadays but da government is putting it down with campaigns etc. personally, i think it boils down to da individual mindset on da issue. but in da christianity perspective, which is mah perspective, i think pre-marital sex is not a demonstration of love, it is rather, a demonstration of lust. the idea of marriage as a social construct is simple, as a legal union between 2 persons of heterosexes which enables them to engage in activities such as pro-creation. like wad pastor said to da ladies, your body is from God, that is something u should keep till wedding day. if u don't give sex and he leaves you, den u shld leave him for it's not love on his part, it's lust. if u really love da girl, u will treasure and keep her and not tarnish her. ok.. now i think i know wad it is all about. a r/s is not based on sex, it is based on emotional, spiritual and communication. but nothing abt sex. and I will now find articles on how sex spoils everything. yess la. any links can tell me k! :)
something which i found very true, when u involve sex in a r/s, it becomes complicated. maybe pple who haven tried it will think it's just for the thrill, da fun, da enjoyment. but fer da few mins of pleasure, it can change everything. but in marriage, when u engage in sexual activities, it is perfectly alright because if u are in the social institution of marriage, you will not have the pressure/stress from engaging in such activities. and again, intimacy, love & romance equates communication, on both spiritual and physical level. but it does not equate sex. da worldy desires are never ending, it is just a matter of waiting. if u truly love ur partner, u will wait.. cos time is not a factor. love is the factor.
haha* so much for mah 5 cents worth. tis is mah outline fer mah research. pretty interesting topic huh. can express opinions as well. pretty cool!! :) and i think da notion still stands, premarital sex isn't exciting, it is stressful. do it not in a moment of folly, do it when u know u really want it. do it with ur life partner. in the social institution of marriage. i think tis is a practical issue, so time to get mah butt off and start researching! :)
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